Emotionally Focused Therapy

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) – or emotionally focused couples therapy as it is sometimes known – is a short-term therapy technique focused on adult relationships. EFT seeks to help clients better understand both their own emotional responses and those of significant people in their lives. A therapist using EFT will look for patterns in the relationship and identify methods to create a more secure bond, increase trust, and help the relationship grow in a healthy direction. In a session, the therapist will observe the interactions between clients, tie this behavior into dynamics in the home, and help guide new interactions based on more open feelings. Sometimes, this includes clients discovering more emotions and feelings than they were aware they had. Think this approach might be right for you? Reach out to one of

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I have advanced training in Emotion Focused Family Therapy which is designed to help loved ones work with those in their lives that are struggling with mental illness (eating disorders and self-harm in particular), and other behavioral concerns. I frequently use this approach to augment direct work with my clients so they have the greatest amount of support possible, especially when they aren't in my office.

— Elizabeth Bolton, Licensed Professional Counselor in Cypress, TX

When we suppress or numb our emotions we don't get to pick and choose the ones we want to feel, they all get suppressed. Emotions are information and they are often trying to tell us important things. Recognizing and sitting with our emotions is a practice that we can get better at; allowing us to move deeper into our understanding of ourselves and others.

— Lindsay Anderson, Professional Counselor Associate in , OR
 

I have received advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and am currently working towards the designation of a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist.

— Jason Powell, Marriage & Family Therapist in Coral Gables, FL

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) has quickly become one of the most popular approaches to working with couples. It is widely recognized as one of the most effective forms of couples therapy. The focus is on understanding how our emotions, interactions, and attachments come together to form healthy and unhealthy patterns in our relationship. EFT aims to encourage the growth of new healthy patterns and move away from unhealthy patterns.

— Jacob Santhouse, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in ,
 

Completed Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) Externship - evidence-based treatment approach utilized in couples therapy

— Sarah Kennedy, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Cincinnati, OH

I have trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples with ICEEFT, which is based in attachment theory and provides a powerful framework for mapping, and then transforming, the cycles of interaction between partners that keep them stuck in conflict and disconnection. Combining this approach with others, I work with couples to unearth the hidden emotions and thought patterns that hold them back from creating the deep intimacy they long for.

— Daniel Fulton, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Oak Park, IL
 

Emotions play a critical role in therapy and our daily lives. I help individuals truly understand how their emotions play an integral role in their lives and how they can connect with their emotions in a way that allows them to become empowered by them. This is what is meant by experiential therapy and putting clients in the driver seat of their therapeutic experience.

— Daniel Lavelle, Licensed Professional Counselor in McLean, VA

Increasing our self-awareness of our emotions and what they are telling us allows us greater freedom to experience life and live comfortably in our bodies.

— Ami Lynch, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Arlington, VA
 

Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) is a therapeutic approach formulated on the theory that emotions are key to identity, decision making, and relationships. As an EFT therapist, I believe that in order to understand the important information emotions provide, we need our focus to be more on an awareness and acceptance of our emotions rather than attempting to suppress and control our emotions. Using this approach can help uncover the complexities of a relationship in couples counseling.

— Hannah Brooks, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in San Diego, CA

I use a highly experiential approach to therapy. This means I believe that simply thinking or talking about a problem is not enough to create real change. In order for change to occur, we need to go deeper, beyond the thinking mind. Research shows that having a felt experience opens up pathways to new ways of thinking and being. This means we will be working toward having new, felt sense experiences to help you move beyond stuck patterns and ineffective coping strategies and toward real change.

— Jane Thibodeau, Somatic Psychotherapist, Marriage and Family Therapist Associate in , NC
 

For individuals, EFT enables exploration and transformation of emotional states contributing to distress, fostering self-acceptance and resilience. For couples, EFT delves into the emotional bond, unearthing unmet needs and improving communication, conflict resolution, and emotional intimacy. For families, EFT unravels interaction patterns, enhancing communication and connections among family members.

— Janice Reyes, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Austin, TX

Emotionally Focused Therapy or (EFT) acknowledges the power of leaning into and naming emotions while teaching skills to help emotional expression feel less overwhelming.

— Robin Casey, Clinical Psychologist in Marietta, GA
 

Emotional Focused Therapy is a treatment approach that was designed mainly for couples. It helps individuals understand their attachment history and how it plays out in their relationships as adults. In couples counseling, individuals are able to reconnect and improve communication by learning how to express core emotions and understand their partner's attachment needs.

— Suzanne Taluy, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Norwalk, CT

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (2024)

— J. Jade Adair, Licensed Clinical Social Worker
 

I have current and ongoing training in Emotionally Focused therapy. EFT is an attachment-based therapy that helps clients face existential life issues by creating a solid sense of self and resiliency. This type of therapy is experiential and offers corrective experiences to help clients relate better to themselves and others in a safe and secure way.

— Joshua Bogart, Professional Counselor Associate in Beaverton, OR

My approach to therapy is authentic, relational, and trust based. I believe in the power of attachment, our need to be accepted, and in our longing for authentic personal connection with others. I have received advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and am currently working towards the designation of Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist.

— Jason Powell, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Ann Arbor, MI
 

Participated in multiple formal and in-formal EFT trainings. Use with clients.

— Alison Shlomi, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Los Angeles, CA